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Aim Higher
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Aim Higher

The tough bosses often hurt people. The nice ones often develop no one. A pilot's lesson from Viktor Frankl, what the research says about expecting more, and how to start.

Aim Higher
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Aim Higher

The tough bosses often hurt people. The nice ones often develop no one. A pilot's lesson from Viktor Frankl, what the research says about expecting more, and how to start.

Quote: "Don't just deal with numbers. Deal more with people."
Making Others Great

Who Made YOU Better?

Thoughts on one of the most important leadership skills

A yellow Post-it note reading WAIT – Why Am I Talking?
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Why Am I Talking? Five Habits of Real Listening

Silence, catching the last sentence, and ten minutes a day: five habits that help people say what they came to say.

"You Matter": The Power and Beauty of Follow-Ups
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"You Matter": The Power and Beauty of Follow-Ups

Remembering a colleague’s trip or exam, and asking about it later, builds trust and engagement. How to make follow-ups a daily habit.

Curiosity: The Leadership Edge No One Taught You
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Curiosity: The Leadership Edge No One Taught You

A child’s question about the sky points to an overlooked leadership skill. Curious leaders ask the second question, and build trust by doing it.

Receiving Feedback: The Real Leadership Skill
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Receiving Feedback: The Real Leadership Skill

Giving feedback gets the training. Receiving it well decides whether people keep telling you the truth.

How Can I Be More Productive?
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How Can I Be More Productive?

Eight methods, from Pomodoro to the 80/20 rule, each with one tip you can try today.

How Can I Give Better Feedback?
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How Can I Give Better Feedback?

SBI, STAR, COIN and the 360-degree approach: four common feedback models, what each one does and when to use it.

How Can I Become a Better Listener?
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How Can I Become a Better Listener?

Seven listening models, from HURIER to WAIT, each with one tip for your next conversation.